Hello everyone, ♡
Welcome to the 2nd post of positive chats! Today I am going to be talking about happiness, I feel like happiness is so important and I do try on my blog and Instagram to spread it as I want everyone to feel positive and cheery. I do know that not everyone can feel good all of the time and we all have our down days but generally I hope I make you all happy.I really hope you enjoy this post and that it uplifts you in some way.
Now the first thing that comes into my head when I am talking about happiness is a song we used to have to sing in primary school about happiness and two lines come to memory most vibrantly and they are “happiness is not to do with what you’ve got or even who you know, it’s more about attitude”. Now these lines really make me think about the fact that if you have a bad attitude to life most of the time that is just going to make you feel down and unhappy. Having a positive attitude towards life will help you feel happier, think about all the things you have that are good in your life, like you friends or family etc.
Now I feel like it does take time to find a place where your truly happy and where you have found happiness, I don’t even think I have found that yet. You do have to be patient, it will come to you when life is ready to give. Enjoy what you are doing now and know if things aren’t so good that they will get better, It will improve.
Something you do have to remember is that you can change things. You are in control. and if things in your life are making you unhappy, you have the power to change them, whether it is school or work or just your lifestyle you can change it. Now, I do realise that some situations you just can’t change like family situations or death or anything like that but you do have the power to switch things around and still be in control of your own feelings and emotions.
Being yourself is the key to being happy, if you are pretending to be someone or something that you’re not it is bound to make you sad. That’s just the nature of it, being true to yourself and who you are is so so important. If you want to be happy don’t fake it to make it.It might mean changing your friends or just full on changing your image but if you truly know deep inside it’s not who you are change it.
I really hope this blog post has helped some of you lovelies.If you ever need any support feel free to email me: firstname.lastname@example.org or dm me on instagram @everythingedenx
Have a lovely rest of your week,
Everything Eden xoxox