Hello everyone, ♡
So if you didn’t know alreasy I am starting a set of blog posts in kind of a campaign way against bullying. I would really love bullying to stop and I am really passionate about that so I will be sharing my experiences and views on different things to do with bullying. If you want more information check out the page on my blog and if you would like to support me let me know on any of my blog posts and I appreciate everyone’s love and support, it means so much.
To start off the blogging against bullying thing, I am going to just give my own personal view of bullying, just a disclaimer I am not a councillor or a bullying specialist and if you don’t agree with what I say please just click off.
It’s okay not to be okay all the time. It’s okay to be worried, dreading, scared, sad and offended. I don’t think people have the message in their heads that words hurt and being mean to people and bullying is not okay. People end up being so sad and depressed from bullying that they take their own lives. Even though we have had so many examples of this still people think that it is acceptable to be mean and bully people. I would never let bullies win and give them the satisfaction of me being gone forever. I just can’t understand how people don’t feel guilty for saying horrible things, even if I have said something in the heat of the moment and don’t mean it, I feel guilty instantly.
You should be the stronger person in these situations, if you can be, ignore it and they will get bored and stop but if it doesn’t or you can’t just ignore it please for me tell someone. I wouldn’t want anyone reading this to feel like they can’t talk to someone as you can. You are not and never will be alone.
People have said stuff to me and still say stuff but I have learnt to ignore it and become a stronger person than I was a while ago. Obviously it’s not so easy for other people to go the same way as me and I understand that. Do what is best for YOU.
On the other hand, we have the bullies who feel sad themselves. They have their own insecurities and sadnesses so making other people feel insecure and sad makes them feel better about themselves. We do all have to understand why bullies do this but it never ever condems bullying or makes it right. We just have to consider what they are going through.
I hope you all have taken something from this first post and have learnt something. My followers are all so lovely and I would never accuse any of you of being bullies just know that. Thank you all for your continual support, it means so much.
Love Eden xx