Blogging Against Bullying Introduction / My View! ♡

Hello everyone, ♡

 

So if you didn’t know alreasy I am starting a set of blog posts in kind of a campaign way against bullying. I would really love bullying to stop and I am really passionate about that so I will be sharing my experiences and views on different things to do with bullying. If you want more information check out the page on my blog and if you would like to support me let me know on any of my blog posts and I appreciate everyone’s love and support, it means so much.

To start off the blogging against bullying thing, I am going to just give my own personal view of bullying, just a disclaimer I am not a councillor or a bullying specialist and if you don’t agree with what I say please just click off.

It’s okay not to be okay all the time. It’s okay to be worried, dreading, scared, sad and offended. I don’t think people have the message in their heads that words hurt and being mean to people and bullying is not okay. People end up being so sad and depressed from bullying that they take their own lives. Even though we have had so many examples of this still people think that it is acceptable to be mean and bully people. I would never let bullies win and give them the satisfaction of me being gone forever. I just can’t understand how people don’t feel guilty for saying horrible things, even if I have said something in the heat of the moment and don’t mean it, I feel guilty instantly.

You should be the stronger person in these situations, if you can be, ignore it and they will get bored and stop but if it doesn’t or you can’t just ignore it please for me tell someone. I wouldn’t want anyone reading this to feel like they can’t talk to someone as you can. You are not and never will be alone.

People have said stuff to me and still say stuff but I have learnt to ignore it and become a stronger person than I was a while ago. Obviously it’s not so easy for other people to go the same way as me and I understand that. Do what is best for YOU.

On the other hand, we have the bullies who feel sad themselves. They have their own insecurities and sadnesses so making other people feel insecure and sad makes them feel better about themselves. We do all have to understand why bullies do this but it never ever condems bullying or makes it right. We just have to consider what they are going through.

I hope you all have taken something from this first post and have learnt something. My followers are all so lovely and I would never accuse any of you of being bullies just know that. Thank you all for your continual support, it means so much.

Love Eden xx

 

20 Comments

  1. July 20, 2017 / 8:36 pm

    Blogging against bullying is a really nice thing to do! 🙂 It’s always important to show awareness 🙂

  2. July 21, 2017 / 8:00 pm

    I’m so glad you’re standing up for bullying and writing these posts. I know so many people who feel bad about themselves and have gone through periods of sadness just because someone said some horrible things to them. I, personally, have had some awful experiences with bullies and I gladly I’ve overcome them over time but I still sometimes think about it and it makes me sad. I’m glad there are people like you, who are out there supporting victims.

    Abby | teenagehomedder.blogspot.com

    • July 21, 2017 / 8:11 pm

      Aw thank you so much for your comment i hope i can help people out as that is what i want to use my platform for. xxx

      • July 23, 2017 / 7:50 am

        That’s alright x

  3. July 28, 2017 / 6:47 pm

    I am so happy that you and Meg are starting this campaign. It is so important to spread the message of how bullying can really affect someone’s mental health x

  4. August 16, 2017 / 2:45 am

    Wow, I love that you are doing this. I have been bullied a lot during high school which cause me anxiety. Thank you for your support 💕

  5. August 17, 2017 / 11:53 am

    I searched wordpress for exactly this kind of campaign. Being bullied as a child has affected every aspect of my life and I now feel I want to help fight back. Well done for starting this. Please let me know if there is anything I can do.

    • August 17, 2017 / 2:41 pm

      Thank you so much and of course. It’s so important 🙂

  6. August 17, 2017 / 3:55 pm

    i am also blogging against bullying. i am sharing my experience’s. this was true and a great post.
    well said.
    <3

  7. September 26, 2017 / 4:35 am

    Exactly!

    My bullies were my so-called “friends.” They would tease me, spread rumors; they would leave me out of things, and yet, they kept me around because deep-down, I think they knew I was awesome!

    Please check out my latest blog and challenge for Bullying Prevention Month. I would love for you to participate.

    https://ladyhoodjourney.com/2017/09/25/you-bullied-me-challenge/

  8. October 2, 2017 / 5:12 pm

    Really liked this post! I wish more people would stand up for others and themselves.

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